Trying to hook a gay guy and in need of some help?
I saw this incredibly good looking guy sitting in front of me on the bus (public transit) on the way home from college one day and I couldn't help but stare. He never noticed me because he always had his laptop with him, and his headphones on. This went on for like two weeks..me enjoying the view on the bus while he was oblivious to the world..and then I didn't see him any more because I got my first car and stopped taking the bus. Last week, he walked through the line next to mine at my job (I'm a cashier). He didn't see me, but I sure saw him. He saw my face a few times on the bus but never really stopped and stared back.
Tonight I saw him on a gay dating website and I'm taking it as a sign. I want to go for it but I have NO clue what to say..That's why I'm here
I'm not looking for cheesy pickup lines or over the top messages..but something real to send to him in a message to try to get a date with him (even if it's just coffee).
Try to sound genuine, almost "friend-ish." Invite him to something that would make him comfortable, dinner, coffee, sporting events....all good public areas to start with. And for your first contact, just a simple hey, i saw you on here, i think we have a lot in common, want to get something to eat and talk? You, know, very conversational.
